Are you susceptible
to committing a crime?
Have you ever asked yourself
this question? Have you ever wondered why you haven’t committed a crime and
stayed out of jail? The answers may be more complex than first assumed as your
answers could reveal more about yourself than you are aware of in determining
the real reasons for people to commit crimes.
One may simple answer the
question that it was the way they grew up and having positive influences within
their lives as they read and watch television show about crime fighters and
superheroes. It may also be influenced
by strong family ties and staunch religious practices that kept you on the
straight and narrow throughout your entire life. So if put simply as two words
to describe your feelings about not committing a crime it comes down to honor
and moral values.
But is there more to it than
that? Is it more than character strengths and setting a strong set of values
that keeps you from making bad decisions? Was it just those influences in your
younger days from family friends and social contacts that taught you how to
make better decisions? Strong parenting skills have a lot to do with this
creation of values and development of the moral compass.
Role models are essentially the
primary caregivers and care takers in your life that may without any coercion
or direction channel your energy towards the positive side of being a law
abiding citizen. Certainly a big
contributor to this concept would be your own experiences and involvement is
social skill building that included sports, school plays and other social
events that focused on working together as a team and creating equal importance
to all that participated.
Whether you were an introvert
or an extrovert didn’t matter as long as you were surrounded with people you
could enjoy being around with and learn from each other the good things in
life. Certainly, being a loner does not embrace such a concept thus it is
important that you seek out socialization to a higher degree than solitude.
Since solitude denies a child or youth outside influences there are no values
to reinforce or replace the values that exists within the child at home or at
school.
Then there are other factors
that play into the development of a sound mind that sees obeying the law as a
positive way to behave. Eliminating hypocrisy, lying and other deceptive
practices allows better examples to be brought forward. Staying away for drugs,
alcohol or other mind altering influences also strengthens the inner self to
stay on a righteous path rather than think as a criminal would.
Seeing people go to jail or
prison serves a good purpose of bringing awareness to the consequences of doing
bad things in life. Accepting the positive values when you witness the results
of negative values allows you to make better decisions about yourself and those
around you. However, it is plain to see
that this does not impact everyone that is aware of the consequence of going to
jail or prison for committing a crime.
Being raised by a solitary
person or a “village” can make the difference and could make you realize there is
more than one way to do something you are challenged with to overcome. This
also applies to single parents and head of households that work their darnest
to provide but often do not have the time to spend quality time to reinforce
these positive values to their kids.
Emulation is a powerful tool.
When you see your mother shoplift and plays it off as a minor event you can
accept the behavior more readily than if your sister was caught shoplifting and
your mother admonishes her for her misconduct and makes you realize that it was
wrong. Therefore siblings play a part of
social developments as well.
Thus we are learning keywords
such as parenting, discipline, rewards, acting appropriately, consistency in
behaviors, love, support, and making mistakes. Each has its own reactionary
reflex and must be done in such a manner where it either rewards the act or
punishes the act. We are staying focused on being part of the solution and not
the problem.
Last but not least is the way
we perceive crime to be as a normative concept. We must in all reality admit
there are many people who commit crimes who are never caught and fooling only
themselves they are not criminals. Not being caught or detected does not
exonerate you from guilt or being wrong about what you did. It is true that
many youths have grown up believing there is a lesser degree of crime and
accept that quickly but they will eventually graduate to a bigger crime and get
caught.
Is it more than religion and
good family skills or does nature impose its power on the morality of this
question? Is it really about the concept of law and order or is it about
acceptance of the traditional family values?
Do demographics play a part as
well and do your region, neighborhood, poverty or rich influence your
decisions? does living in a gang infested area determine your social values or
will your family values survive or be compromised. The fact is that every
person has different internal pressures to deal with and how they deal or react
to these pressures determines their decision making to a rather straight up
right or wrong decision to live with throughout their lives.
Do these factors play into the
formula for positive-negative reinforcement actions or do they withstand such
cultural influences. Have you considered any of the factors that played a major
part in your life to keep you from being a criminal or a person with criminal
habits? There are so many variances on this question as it plays into
consideration individual weaknesses and strengths unlike the criminal that
commit wrongful offenses but never really accept responsibility for what they
do and are persistent in nature that they did not recognize what they did as
doing wrong or why they did it in the first place.
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