Leaders that
offer no leadership are not frontrunners. Leaders are not positional and are
not designated or selected to lead as the role is purely situational and not
based on title or authority. One of the most common mistakes made by
supervisors is to bully their way into a conversation and when challenged with
a legitimate reasons for asking the “why” of the directive, they have to ponder
for a moment, give it a long pause and reply “because I told you so” giving no
other explanation other than bullying out their demands either in private or
worse, in a public setting.
How many times
have you heard your supervisor tell you or shout at you these words “I don’t care
how long it takes” and what about my favorite “because that’s the way I want it”
leaving no room for compromise or further discussions. Attitudes such as this
are known to be 100 % wrong and demonstrate poor leadership skills as well as
ill preparation to be in a command position as part of a team or workforce.
Bullying and belittling
key members of a team or workforce is most unacceptable and destroys morale as
well as any motivation the employee may possess up to that point when he or she
hears these nasty comments directed towards them in a harsh and unpleasant
manner or tone,. It does not inspire people to work harder or increase productivity.
In fact it hampers individual responsibilities normally acquired when someone
takes pride in their work.
Quantum leadership
is the type of management style that dumps work and responsibility on others.
It creates animosity and tension in the workplace one must remember that
carrying a title, no matter how fancy or impressive, does not make the leader
better than the rest. Ranting and raving as well as nagging or pushing people
into work situations creates division among team members and management and
must be avoided in order to maintain a harmonious environment.
Most workers
understand and accept the fact that certain positions carry with them specific
responsibilities. They know that each person has a job to do as well as a
specific purpose to complete. Stepping on toes does nothing to improve the
skill or manner a worker functions or behaves. As a leader it is important that
you don’t step on one employee to elevate your own sense of importance or
value.
Shouting and
avoiding eye contact means you are talking above the head or more commonly called
“over their heads” of those you want to listen to you but because of your
arrogance, you are talking down and being demeaning in conduct. Leaders must
recognize they are members of the same team and as such you both work for the
organization for success and services provided.
Remember that respect does not flow downstream but rather it moves both
downstream and upstream as it must be mutual and flow both ways. If you want to be respected, you must show
others respect. It is that simple
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