Wasted Honor -

Carl R. ToersBijns is the author of the Wasted Honor Trilogy [Wasted Honor I,II and Gorilla Justice] and his newest book From the Womb to the Tomb, the Tony Lester Story, which is a reflection of his life and his experiences as a correctional officer and a correctional administrator retiring with the rank of deputy warden in the New Mexico and Arizona correctional systems.

Carl also wrote a book on his combat experience in the Kindle book titled - Combat Medic - Men with destiny - A red cross of Valor -

Carl is considered by many a rogue expert in the field of prison security systems since leaving the profession. Carl has been involved in the design of many pilot programs related to mental health treatment, security threat groups, suicide prevention, and maximum custody operational plans including double bunking max inmates and enhancing security for staff. He invites you to read his books so you can understand and grasp the cultural and political implications and influences of these prisons. He deals with the emotions, the stress and anxiety as well as the realities faced working inside a prison. He deals with the occupational risks while elaborating on the psychological impact of both prison worker and prisoner.

His most recent book, Gorilla Justice, is an un-edited raw fictional version of realistic prison experiences and events through the eyes of an anecdotal translation of the inmate’s plight and suffering while enduring the harsh and toxic prison environment including solitary confinement.

Carl has been interviewed by numerous news stations and newspapers in Phoenix regarding the escape from the Kingman prison and other high profile media cases related to wrongful deaths and suicides inside prisons. His insights have been solicited by the ACLU, Amnesty International, and various other legal firms representing solitary confinement cases in California and Arizona. He is currently working on the STG Step Down program at Pelican Bay and has offered his own experience insights with the Center of Constitutional Rights lawyers and interns to establish a core program at the SHU units. He has personally corresponded and written with SHU prisoners to assess the living conditions and how it impacts their long term placement inside these type of units that are similar to those in Arizona Florence Eyman special management unit where Carl was a unit deputy warden for almost two years before his promotion to Deputy Warden of Operations in Safford and Eyman.

He is a strong advocate for the mentally ill and is a board member of David's Hope Inc. a non-profit advocacy group in Phoenix and also serves as a senior advisor for Law Enforcement Officers Advocates Council in Chino, California As a subject matter expert and corrections consultant, Carl has provided interviews and spoken on national and international radio talk shows e.g. BBC CBC Lou Show & TV shows as well as the Associated Press.

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Saturday, May 23, 2015

The Stare



We all know what the stare down is and we all have had to deal with people who stare. However, this stare is different, this one is a blank inexpressive face, with no words, no emotion and no humanity.
Most of your experienced stare downs are people trying to cower you down and intimidate you through direct eye contact. They are relying on your inner fear to avoid confrontation and look away, making you the loser in this test of wills and confidence. However, this stare is different. This is a stare of shock.
This is not an interpersonal communication attempt. There are no implications of power or confidence. This is just a blank stare which in all cases, serve no other purpose but to stare.
There are no reasons for this stare down or the deliberate psychological step to intimidate or win a battle of wills. There are no certain rules, circumstances or logic to this behavior. There are no reasons for believing there is a power or control issue here. There is none.
This stare is not about a threat or disrespect. This stare is about just staring.
No winner, no loser and no conceding the match. It is just a moment in time for uncomfortable eye contact that won’t go away until the shock wears off, if it ever does.
There is no connection – there is no feelings of intrusion of the mind or body – there is nothing.
There is, in all actuality, no true eye contact as the stare is a blank stare that has no receiver on the other end. The brain has not allowed the retina and optic nerve to translate what it sees thus the stare is blinded and there is no vision.
You can now converse but the words cannot be heard. You can feel more comfortable for the stare is not aggressive because there is no dominator or dominance issues with the stare.
You can have the satisfaction that you can break the gaze because there is no vision.
Body language is nil – here we see no motion from the person with the stare. There are no hand movements or gestures. There is no nervousness or fear. The fear has already triggered the stare.
This is not a submissive gesture. It is a void expression of a missing world. There is no “alpha” person here to compete with and win.
Finally, there is no attempts for nasty manipulation – there are no good guys, bad or ugly. There is no sound, no words and no facial expression. This stare makes the person not to exist and therefore, gone from his reality.

Monday, May 18, 2015

Does Fear keep you from doing Right?


Does Fear keep you from doing Right?

Is fear the true essence of morality?

 

Understanding the Ten Commandments is a risky business. If you understand this doctrine then you know there are consequences for your sins. However, you only understand the doctrine to be true if you believe them to be fact, hence you are relying on the truth.

Are these Commandments an absolute and is the true sense of morality hinge on them to intrinsically right or absolute and do you believe this with a degree of certainty? Get the picture as you doubt what the truth is and what certainty is. Perhaps there is no absolute in believing in the Commandments.

I believe the reason we try so hard to understand these Commandments is because of fear. Fear that if they are absolute, you may suffer dire consequences on Judgment Day. Is that a logical position to take or am I off base with my logical deduction that I believe because I fear to be wrong?

Am I motivated by self-gratification or selfish greed to go to heaven if I promise to follow the Commandments? Am I motivated to submit to the fact that the Commandments are absolute so I may receive what is a promised reward by going to heaven?

How does that impact my own morality and integrity with God or with myself? Am I cheating myself by lying to myself? Is morality for those who believe and not for those who don’t believe in the Commandments? Do I have to have religion to have access to morality and if that is so, is morality limited to only the believers?

Going deeper into the morality issue, do I have to be a Christian or can I be a Jew, a Muslim or Hindu to believe I am following these Commandments because I believe them to be the truth? Deeper yet, do I have to be a Christian to be on high moral ground or does it maintain balance and truth for other religions as well?

Am I moral because I feel I have to be and if I have to be, am I moral? Does believing make me more moral than others and how does that impact my own life believing what others don’t.

Logic tells me if I don’t have to believe then I am not moral and in essence my morality is based on my fear that something may happen if I don’t believe in the Commandments which are said to be the truth.

How can I be moral is my actions are self-serving? What do I gain for believing just to believe? I cannot be moral if there is nothing to gain and nothing to fear for being that way. Do I need to gain to be moral and isn’t that a violation of the Commandments.

So I wonder and ponder an ethical dilemma in my heart. To believe or not believe in the Commandments and all the other scriptures written and said to be the truth. Should I agree that the essence of morality is doing something that is right regardless of the collateral damage to myself?

 Is the essence of morality doing right regardless that I am seeking a self-reward? Thus the essence of morality is based on your decision to decide which way to choose your life and ultimately, either be dependent on the words you believe to be the truth or independently gather the courage to decide and choose what you believe is right or moral without fear. Either way, whichever you choose without fear must be the right thing to do and creates your morality.

How true is this?

 

A fence post and a tree are both anchored in the earth

A fence post and a tree are both anchored in the earth. But they achieve it in totally different ways.
Is she the one - will she stay?
What do you see when you see a tree
What does it take to pull up stakes?
The question is fair and only if you dare
For the tree is firmly anchored in the ground
And the shovel to dig it out is nowhere to be found
While in contrast, the fence post is easy to be set free
It can be pulled out of the ground so much easier than the tree

What do you see when you spot a fence post in the ground
Is it leaning in or is it leaning out and will it stay
Contrast to the tree it looks like it has begun to decay
If the fence post made out of wood
It will come out easy for it doesn’t have any roots
Most fence posts I know are made out of wood
But without roots, that’s all it is, a piece of wood
 So the fence post stands alone and the tree has deep and strong roots
Roots that are hidden and asleep but strong enough to hold it up for keeps
While the fence post will pull up stakes and when the tree will stay
There isn’t any question which of the two just wants to play
While the fence post wavers and sways with the wind
Showing its weakness and not knowing whether it will break or bend
So if you choose between the two I would pick the tree
For the fence post will be so much easier to pull up stakes and be free






Workplace Safety & Sexual Harassment & Assault


Why it’s happening?

Why is there a sexual harassment and an assault problem in Arizona Department of Correction is something that needs to be discussed by the Governor and his cabinet member Charles L. Ryan who had been in denial of this problem since he took the reins in 2009 when he became director and refuses to admit this was a problem before his arrival.  
Sexual harassment, is a manifestation of power. 

The agency is an agency of dominance. The two are related in culture and in behaviors. Women are more likely to become victims of sexual harassment than men but the fact is, both genders are deeply impacted.

To understand this completely, if sexual harassment is “power,” then complaining is a “weakness.”

The women are more vulnerable because they are placed, promoted or assigned insecure positions as their job descriptions are uncovered by state personnel rules and makes them work at-will and subject to immediate termination of the employer is dissatisfied with their work performance.

The same rules apply to men and there are men in subordinate positions to senior female staff. Regardless how you see it, there are other cultural dynamics at play here that we can discuss later on. Most women lack power and power drives the agency.

Every position is a position of authority over someone and the rank and file have been warned that zero tolerance is expected, but the agency has sent mixed messages when it comes to tolerance and condoning socialization between supervisors and subordinates and vice versa.

In fact, sexual harassment claims are often dismissed and treated as other more informal matters that takes away the bite of the law that protects the employee from harassment and retaliation.

Fear and intimidation creates a wall of silence on this topic and a paper trail would lead a reporter nowhere. What is not recorded are those off the record conversations between management and employee which explains the consequences of filing such a report.

Whispered in their ears are words like “team player” and “loser” as well as “traitor” and many other names. It often results in ostracizing and hazing by others who have a personal relationship with the accused person.

The consequence are severe for old or new employees since the misconduct is taken as a direct reflection on the integrity of management and not the person involved. In fact, wardens are often contacted personally by senior management to “clean this up” before the situation gets out of hand.

Thus complaining of misconducted related to sexual harassment in the workplace has deep political ramifications in an at-will work place. Economically, in a tight job market, losing a job would be detrimental to their wellness and survival abilities.

Once it reaches the top, they in turn slams the bottom echelon with the reality that their job may be in jeopardy, their economic situating may change and their relationships with others, including fellow officers, is on the brink of disaster because of mistrust, teamwork and character questions.

One important note must be included in this opinion written to bring it to a forum for discussion. The prisoners witness these unwanted sexual advances daily. They watch from the sidelines and see the men prey on the women and the women on the men.
They in fact, create a sport out of the fact they get to see whether or not a social relationship develops and how to exploit that relationship to benefit their own gains while serving time.

Statistically, the agency hides most of their sexual harassment claims. Those incidents reported are whitewashed in various ways. It is disgusting how the agency downplays assaults even when it is committed by a prisoner who unlawfully touches a women officer without being held liable or responsible for such misconduct.
I
n the United States, one out of every ten women are raped or sexually assaulted during their lives. This includes half of those women living with men who have experienced a sexual battering or similar domestic violence incident.

Violence in the workplace in spiraling out of control. The main reason is speculated to be the high level of tolerance permitted by the management teams that restrain themselves from getting involved in such incidents and downplay the assault or harassment to a lower level with tolerances being wide enough to allow no disciplinary action for such conduct.

Zero tolerance is just a phrase they [agency] trumpet when the red flag goes up and a charge has been made. However, it is all connected to permissive attitudes that allows such improper behaviors to occur and management does not want to admit their workplace is prone to such violations or misconduct so they sweep it under their rugs.

Sexual harassment is a form of violence perceived as self-protection which translates into the men in the workplace provide the women at work protection if their relationship is mutual or even more intimate than normal. This provides security to the women and the men fulfill their egos with their “masculinity” fulfilled and the machismo intact.

Since many women in law enforcement or corrections have a role as either a single parent raising kids or a both parents work type of arrangement, there are social needs that are not fulfilled completely making them vulnerable to unwanted attention yet, perhaps, not as unwanted as announced or complained about in their grievance.

To say that the economics of women working in a field dominated by men is a reasonable statement. The mere fact they need this job to hold on to no matter what makes them more susceptible to harassment or unwanted attention because they are easy marks for men especially those in position of authority or power who lead them to believe if they are willing to be sociable, they could receive a “quid pro quo” arrangement

Such an arrangement would enhance their home life to certain degree as they could in fact be considered for better working hours, shifts, days off and vacation time. Keep in mind, this works the opposite as well for men who are supervised or managed by women in power or authority.

Hence manipulation is the background factor of any harassment charges or allegations. In these cases the women were subject to overt discrimination, that is, they received lesser-valued job assignments, lack of promotions, lower pay, and sexual harassment to cause embarrassment and humiliation. 

The problem of sexual harassment relates to the roles which are attributed to men and women in social and economic life, which, in turn, directly or indirectly, affects women’s positions in the labor market and workplace. It’s really that connected and simple.

Corrections has notoriously been a man’s job market. Focusing on the economics of men's work and women's work exposes sexual harassment as a way for the men who harass women to express their resentment and try to reassert control when they view women as their economic competitors and taking jobs away from men.

Despite these impediments women face in obtaining employment, there has been a massive influx of women into corrections. Female officers mass and exponentially additional entry into the workforce has been prompted by necessity, since many families cannot make ends meet if the wife and husband do not both work full-time. 

Furthermore, the number of single-parent families headed by women in growing.  There are a large number of families in which a woman is the sole means of support.  Data from the U.S. indicate that between 1980 and 1990, the number of female-headed families increased by 27%. 

The second reaction was to exploit the presence of women and make sexual favors and submission to sexual behaviors conditions of employment, that is to keep from being fired, demoted, or otherwise adversely affected at work.  Both are forms of sexual harassment

If sex discrimination forces women into lower-paying jobs, sexual harassment helps keep them there.  This may not be the intention of the harasser in every instance, but it is often the effect. Sexual harassment creates a climate of intimidation and repression. 

A woman who is the target of sexual harassment often goes through the same process of victimization as one who has suffered rape, battering or other gender-related crimes- frequently blaming herself and doubting her own self-worth.

One can only imagine what this does as far as being a person who possesses low self-esteem, confidence and is easily manipulated into doing something inappropriate. This can or may result in passive aggressive actions or behaviors on the job or off duty. Regardless it is a severe problem today.