Brown Nosing- it’s an art

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Carl R. ToersBijns is the author of the Wasted Honor Trilogy [Wasted Honor I,II and Gorilla Justice] and his newest book From the Womb to the Tomb, the Tony Lester Story, which is a reflection of his life and his experiences as a correctional officer and a correctional administrator retiring with the rank of deputy warden in the New Mexico and Arizona correctional systems.

Carl also wrote a book on his combat experience in the Kindle book titled - Combat Medic - Men with destiny - A red cross of Valor -

Carl is considered by many a rogue expert in the field of prison security systems since leaving the profession. Carl has been involved in the design of many pilot programs related to mental health treatment, security threat groups, suicide prevention, and maximum custody operational plans including double bunking max inmates and enhancing security for staff. He invites you to read his books so you can understand and grasp the cultural and political implications and influences of these prisons. He deals with the emotions, the stress and anxiety as well as the realities faced working inside a prison. He deals with the occupational risks while elaborating on the psychological impact of both prison worker and prisoner.

His most recent book, Gorilla Justice, is an un-edited raw fictional version of realistic prison experiences and events through the eyes of an anecdotal translation of the inmate’s plight and suffering while enduring the harsh and toxic prison environment including solitary confinement.

Carl has been interviewed by numerous news stations and newspapers in Phoenix regarding the escape from the Kingman prison and other high profile media cases related to wrongful deaths and suicides inside prisons. His insights have been solicited by the ACLU, Amnesty International, and various other legal firms representing solitary confinement cases in California and Arizona. He is currently working on the STG Step Down program at Pelican Bay and has offered his own experience insights with the Center of Constitutional Rights lawyers and interns to establish a core program at the SHU units. He has personally corresponded and written with SHU prisoners to assess the living conditions and how it impacts their long term placement inside these type of units that are similar to those in Arizona Florence Eyman special management unit where Carl was a unit deputy warden for almost two years before his promotion to Deputy Warden of Operations in Safford and Eyman.

He is a strong advocate for the mentally ill and is a board member of David's Hope Inc. a non-profit advocacy group in Phoenix and also serves as a senior advisor for Law Enforcement Officers Advocates Council in Chino, California As a subject matter expert and corrections consultant, Carl has provided interviews and spoken on national and international radio talk shows e.g. BBC CBC Lou Show & TV shows as well as the Associated Press.

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Thursday, September 25, 2014

Brown Nosing- it’s an art

Let’s face it. We all know someone who was born to kiss somebody’s ass. I mean, from the early stages in life, we learn how to adapt and overcome the art of getting your way but some just do it better than others.

Born to kiss ass people are called brown nosers. Now before we get downright ugly we must say that this demonstrated skill is an art and should not be taken lightly

There are rules to become a gifted brown noser. These rules are flexible to be used for men or women but regardless, in the end it doesn’t matter whose ass or rear end you kiss as long as it gets you what you want. Ass kissers like to take control of matters so they can control their own destiny thus you can say ass kissers are selfish people and very self-centered.

They have a lot of tact but use it to benefit themselves and not others. They have diplomatic skills but use them to attain what they seek and judge to be important to them. Yes, when it is all said and done, a kiss ass is a brown nosing asshole. They know how to play the game.

Brown nosers are very confident in what they do. They have seen it work many times over and abuse their gift to kiss ass often. They like to take control of a situation so they may end up doing less work then the others. They know how to delegate and pass it on. Basically there are two kind; the leader and the follower. Basically what you have are people playing a game called follow the leader.

Brown nosers can’t be trusted. They are not good friends and therefore, I recommend you stay away from them as they will kiss anybody’s ass, even your own enemies. Some brown nosers are bullies but normally they refer to kiss ass rather than kick someone ass.

Since they can’t be trusted they always have a motive. Motive can be self-gain or profit. It could be a promotion or a position of trust. No matter what motive they have, they are easy to spot and usually the ones with the fakes smiles on their faces.

Ass kissers buy their friendship. They hope to earn the will to be liked and given an opportunity to be something or someone special. They often lose respect of themselves before they lose the respect of others. They are quickly humiliated by don’t seem to stop even when identified to be a brown-noser by someone they are kissing up to and befriend.

At work brown nosers can make the employee of the months at least three times a year. They have it down pat academically so they are recognized often by their bosses who like their asses kissed. A good brown noser kisses ass in a subtle and stealth like manner. They know how to manipulate people and influence the minds.

They agree to disagree but very rarely disagree with the boss. They want to be the boss’s friend. They listen more than talk so they can learn more about who is who and how they can benefit their position. They pick who they think will benefit them the most.

These kind of people spread rumors, tell lies and make up stories. They do everything contrary to what is respectable and honest. The bottom line is an ass kisser will take you down so they can move up.